It’s possible! See 6 ways to make your orgasm last

Looking for ways to extend that good org@.$mic feeling is probably going to be a long adventure. In this article Whitney C. Harris through Men’s health reviews how possible this is. In collaboration with Emily Nagoski Ph.D who is the author of Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your S3@.x:’ Life.

Studies have been done to find out how possible it is to extend the duration of the female org@.$m from between 6 to 30 seconds to a full minute.

Here are a few steps that can help

 1. Imagine your bedroom as an hotel room

The reason for this is that you need the place to be a complete relaxation place, a place where you can lay back and relax. If you’ve got kids, it needs to be a place where the kids cannot disturb and try as much as possible to make it romantic. The atmosphere has to make good that you can focus your mind on the pleasure you’re about to have.

2. Sweet words galore

 How you and your spouse feel goes a long to make the one full minute org@.$m a reality, if you feel good about yourself, the S3@.x:’ will definitely feel good. If you feel self-conscious, it will sap you S3@.x:’ drive faster than one of the five worst S3@.x:’ positions. Insecurity distracts you and inhibits your pleasure, says Nagoski.

Compliment her as much as you can, make her feel hot, make her feel wanted.

3. Dirty Talk

This is one way to get the best out of your partner in bed, Find out what your partner likes to hear, and what words turn them in and use those to stimulate those parts of her in ways she hasn’t imagined.

4. Don’t rush foreplay

Foreplay can get a lady closer to org@.$m than you. Being brought to the brink of org@.$m repeatedly will cause your arousal to spread throughout your whole body—resulting in a bigger, longer climax when you finally peak, says Nagoski. If she likes oral S3@.x:’, then you need to learn how to do that, also take cues from her and how best to pleasure her senses using your mouth and perhaps your fingers too. Most importantly, take your instructions from her.

5. Be prepared

Planning is vital to this plan, it’s not just to start it. Working multiple S3@.x:’ acts into one session can help prolong your org@.$m because the variation creates more tension and arousal, says Van Kirk. Cover your basis for foreplay and S3@.x:’ itself.

6. Let him back off a little

When some women are on the brink of org@.$m, their clitorises become very sensitive. If that’s the case, asking him to stimulate you more gently may help you maintain your climax for longer, says Van Kirk.

You might need him to back off a bit when your org@.$m is very close depending on you as a lady.Also consider inviting him to use his fingers or tongue or even vibrator over the clitoris.

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