Dear Merissa,
It’s a tough situation and quite honestly, there is nothing you can do about it. I understand you guys love each other deeply and not having sex after 2-3 months into your relationship calls for worry. What I would tell you is this; you need to tell him what the situation is. You won’t deny your man sex forever and repeat the words ‘I love you’ to him every time. It will get him irritated or might, to an extreme extent, influence him to rape or leave you.
My candid advice is to tell him what’s in your mind and as for the other option, just get ready to take in the big man! Yes, because if you don’t want to lose him then take him in. he can’t continue to get excuses after excuses from the same woman he loves. So tell him!
Hello Jude,
There is nothing as noble as a man asking a woman’s hand in marriage. If she’s not happy with the idea of getting married to you after five years together then she may never get ready. It’s sad given the fact that you both share a son but instead of spending the rest of your lives regretting your marriage, I will advice you both take time off and re-think what you really want.
She may have tangible reasons for her anger every time marriage is raised in your conversations. She may be scared or just something petit. Honestly, talk together about taking a short break apart, it’s a huge risk sweetheart but if after a short while you both can’t stay without each other, then marriage it is. But if otherwise, then let it go! Just pray and fast about this ok?
Dear Nnamdi,
First of all, do you believe in ‘witchcraft’ or are you superstitious? I understand it’s a tough call and trust has been breached but also think about it carefully. You failed to mentioned if she was delivered from that demonic force in your mail and if she was, then there is nothing to worry about because God is in total control. Unless you are telling me, you don’t believe that your pastor didn’t do his job.
Africa is full of these beliefs and I’m not saying you don’t have the right to leave her or be mad but also give her a chance here. Maybe she was under a spell or something like that. Except your same pastor said she was from an underwater spirit, then I will advise you to take your son and out you go!
But don’t fail to pray profusely about this. Its spiritual and should be delt with like it is – spiritually! Be brave and be a man about this.
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