Many times you’ve thaught about your past life, how you dated numerous girls and what your experience had been. Apparently those chicks loved you becauses of the bread, or let me say ‘money’ do you think it was time wasting? you have a wife now, imagine the expenses you incured then?
If you are married, you will have realized that the girl you dated is different from the woman you married. This does not mean she changed completely, it means that her priorities and perspective about life and marriage will improve in many ways. Hopefully, for the better.
Now, what makes her different? Here are 10 differences between the girl you dated and the woman you married.
1. The girl you dated loves you for the financial support and security she can get from you. She always expects something expensive especially when she gives you a gift or does you a favour.
The woman you married is with you because she believes in you and the fact that two heads are better than just one and both can build a strong financial cushion together. She does things for you just because she loves you, not because she wants something in return.
2. The girl you dated always puts herself first. She is not bothered about your career, your future or your vision in life. All she cares about is herself.
The woman you marry cares about your future and career as well as hers. She balances your plan and hers to make sure it works together and you both achieve your goals in life.
3. The girl you date is overly conscious about her appearance and the attention she gets from other men.
The woman you married is only interested in being attractive to the man she married. She is not bothered about petty things and she is not narcissistic. She understands that real beauty emanates from within.
4. The girl you dated doesn’t trust you enough to reveal are most guarded secrets.
The woman you married will have a problem hiding things from you. She knows and believes that honesty is the best policy. She expects you to be understanding and mature, so she trusts you completely.
5. The girl you dated believes she knows everything and that she is always right. She is not opened to learn new things.
The woman you married is willing to learn new things, learn from her mistakes, and knows there is always room for improvement.
6. The girl you dated is going to compare you to her ex, other men she knows or even celebrities.
The woman you married knows you are already trying hard to be your best self and won’t compare you to anyone. She loves you for you and knows you can’t be someone else.
7. The girl you dated isn’t considering a future with you. She is not planning to get married or start a family with you.
The woman you married is excited about spending the rest of her life with you and can’t wait to start a family with you.
8. The girl you date will act like a kid and always throw tantrums. If she is angry or displeased, she will start acting aggressively or will give you the silent treatment.
The woman you married will also get angry but she will be more matured the way she deals with her emotions. She is willing to talk to you about her issues and also try to work things out.
9. The girl you dated believes that compromising means bowing down to a demand. She is not willing to compromise with you, it’s either her way or no way at all.
The woman you married understands that compromise is necessary for a healthy marriage. She understands that things don’t always work out the way we imagine in life and is willing to compromise so as to have a healthy happy marriage.
10. The girl you dated has to be entertained and will leave you once she gets bored.
The woman you married is someone you can have fun with either relaxing, doing activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy each other’s company.
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